Billie's Journey by Jenn Foote
One year ago, I was in a residential treatment program at Bellwood in
. I have struggled with an eating
disorder for my entire adult life and have been pretty much scraping the bottom
the past few years. I came to realize that this was not something I was going
to grow out of or overcome through willpower and determination. I needed
something else and with my local treatment team, it was decided that I would
spend a few months at Toronto Bellwood.
Bellwood, I was introduced to art therapy. I am sure the
therapist’s ears are still ringing as I talked non-stop during our sessions,
while my hands were busy creating. Although I was making stuff, I did not
consider it art, nor did I consider myself any sort of artist. Sure, I have
dabbled in all sorts of crafts over the years and love making things, but never
professionally and certainly not for public consumption.
I was talking to a fellow client one day and he mentioned that he does pen and ink drawings. I said to him “how cool that you have a thing.” And he asked me, “what’s your thing?” And I responded, “I don’t have a thing.” That rang true to an extent in terms of my feelings regarding my self-worth, but at the same time I knew that wasn’t my story. I started to think about all the things I could do, and decided I was a “Jill of all Trades.” I could do a lot of things, and while I was not an expert in any of them, that didn’t lessen the importance of my ability to do them. So I started a list of all the things I could do. As I created this list, which included things like racing a dirt bike and doing electrical wiring, I started to envision an art-based project that would be a physical and visible reminder to myself that I have worth, that I have value, even if I don’t have a “thing” (I have yet to create this piece).
In the fall of 2012, through the magic of Google, I stumbled across an ad for a contest put on by the International Association of Eating Disorder Professionals (IAEDP) in the
(http://www.iaedp.com/). I immediately had
a vision of what I might do. And that vision kept growing and wouldn’t leave me
alone, so I contacted IAEDP to see if they would accept an international
applicant. It was a yes, so I started to put my plan into action. US
The contest is called “Imagine Me Beyond What You Can See” (http://www.iaedp.com/ImagineMe.htm) and involves the use of a mannequin to express the challenge of eating disorders and/or recovery. I started making my vision a reality with a trip to
to buy my
mannequin. “Billie” as I came to call her, moved in with me at the beginning of
December. She scared me a few times…I would forget she was there and out of the
corner of my eye I would see this 6’ naked mannequin and would think “OMG,
there is someone in my house!”. We eventually got used to one another and I
liked having her for a roommate. Montreal
I officially finished Billie over the Christmas period and submitted my application via email with photographs at the beginning of January. All done, right!? Not even close! It
turns out this was the beginning of something that has almost taken on a life of its own.
Meet Billie. She is from
. One of only a handful of
average-sized mannequins, she came home with me to Montreal . She is wearing a spandex
flesh-coloured body suit with a large, oversized zipper down the front. The
body suit is unzipped and pulled off the left shoulder, as if Billie is
shedding her skin. The body suit represents her physical body and outward
appearance. The large zipper is meant to emphasize the removal of this outer
Underneath this “skin”, the true Billie emerges. She is more than her physical exterior. Her insides are represented by positive coloured words on a black background which focus on a few key areas: her brain, her heart, what she can do with her hands, where she comes from and who she has the potential to be (feet), and her core which is the essence of Billie (belly). Outside these core areas are dozens more positive words. Any one of these words can be used to describe Billie and the beautiful being that she is.
In her right hand is a mirror, but instead of seeing her own image reflected back at her, Billie asks “Can You See Me Now”? She does not look into the mirror to judge her physical self, but to lovingly embrace all that she is which is more than just a body. The mirror itself is pretty and glamorous, not scary and ominous.
Dangling from her left sleeve, as she sheds her skin, are negative words. They are accumulating in a discarded, unwanted pile of black & white at her feet. The words are all face down…the power of words is strong and Billie needs no reminder of the negative words she is shedding. What’s remarkable is the power that this relatively small pile of negative words holds.
“Can You See Me Now?”
I was itching to help out
again after the success of their Christmas wrapping kiosk in the Place
d’Orleans Mall so I got in touch with the Program Coordinator to see what might
be a good fit for me. It turns out Hopewell
hosts an art show every year in support of National Eating Disorder week. I
quickly signed up to be the co-curator of the 2013 “Inner Beauty” show. I was
asked to bring Billie to the vernissage as her message speaks to inner beauty.
But I didn’t want to stop there. I wanted something that could hang in the show
all month long. Initially my plan was to mount a photograph of Billie, but then
I got another idea: create a wall-mounted version. So poor Billie was my model
and I cast her torso, allowing me to make a paper-mache wall-mounted version.
In a little over two months, I had created two significant pieces, entered an
art contest, was going to have Billie at an art show opening and have another
piece hang in the show itself. WOW! Hopewell
Bille De-constructed for the
Art Show Hopewell
I was contacted the third week of February and advised that I had won the IAEDP art contest, but could I please keep it a secret. I was only advised in advance as they unveil the winner at a banquet during their annual symposium and Billie had to get to
I was stunned. I created a website to start to keep track of this journey. I
made up business cards so I could share my art with others. Las Vegas
As this was a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity, I travelled down to Vegas as well. I have friends that live in the area so I took advantage of the opportunity to spend time with them and see some of the sights. These women were so supportive, encouraging, loving and accepting. I was starting to see myself as others do, not through the distorted lens that I usually use.
Not only did I win first prize for the overall contest, but I won the Professional’s Choice award as well. I got a chance to address the 300+ symposium participants who are all health care professionals working in the field of eating disorders. It was such a powerful experience for all of us. At the end of the night, Billie was auctioned off and now lives in
The winning bidder offered to let me keep her, but I knew her story did not
belong to me alone and that she needed to go.
Winning bidder in
, Billie & me Miami
I currently have two other pieces in art shows here in
and will be submitting a piece for
another show this week. I have created one piece on commission and have orders
for at least two more. I have an ever-increasing list of projects that I want
to tackle and have carved out a small studio space in my home. My journeys of
recovery and art have just begun, but I am happy to say that I have found my
Please stop by to visit me at iseeiplayicreate.com, I would love to hear your story.